When we truly come from a place of service without any thought to our own gain, we get to experience the feeling of being complete, adequate and safe. Those feelings underpin all of the good feelings in life. Not wanting to give comes from a place of fear and scarcity, so when we give we re-affirm our own abundance. If we make a practice of taking the time to be more loving we can begin to see huge changes in the quality of our life. So by giving you are Giving unconditionally is the really powerful act because it solidifies in us the sense that everything is ok as it is. When we hold that position, everything we do becomes a gift, we silently whisper to everyone we deal with, “everything is ok”, “you are ok”, “life is ok”. When we behave in ways that secure people, we are welcome everywhere we go, we are more and more relaxed and people enjoy themselves in our company. This is really about making your life about being a blessing for others. Overtime it becomes much less to do with what you “do” and much more to do with who you are.

The key to a magical “golden moment” is surprise. Giving somebody something when they are not expecting anything is such a powerful expression of love. That is when we truly touch the soul of another human. So, spend some time thinking about who you could send a lovely film, or who you could send a card with a lovely message written in it.  Simple expressions of love can be so powerful. That thoughtful little gift or that special day out can make people feel so loved. Or maybe doing something wonderful for someone you don’t know. Pick someone out of the phone book and send them £5 in the post or spend an afternoon at your local retirement home and have fun with someone that could use some good company.